Accommodating

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My immediate association to today’s word prompt of “Elastic ” was about the dire need for more flexibility. How important it is we be able to curl our mind around the bend of preconception so we can appreciate beyond “our idea of beautiful” or “our opinion of correctness.” It’s become fashionable to be rigidly unyielding, to confront instead of listen, to seek conformity instead of be accommodating.

As if acceptability lives by a single yardstick and Photoshop.

We cover over imperfections. We discard or deny any marring exists. We seek the shiny new. People get judged more by their circumstance of birth than by how pliable their hearts are or how truly resilient they have proven to be in holding on to kindness even in the face of oh-so-much that wasn’t.

As I wrote this a notification appeared for Steve McCurry’s post about the “Art of Imperfection” and the power of Wabi-Sabi — the Japanese practice of finding harmony and beauty in what is simple, natural, and modest, where transience and imperfection are part of the aesthetic. How perfectly apt.

Here’s to beauty in the marred.

 

 

 

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Voguish

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Photo: Narcissus

 

It may be fashionable to be unkind,

To dismiss civility as weak

And see polite discourse

As reflecting ‘snowflake’ fragility.

One wonders, though,

About the price of bullish ways

On our children

Who are learning

Not what we say

But what we model.

Will they grow to celebrate insult

As denoting power,

And be enthused

By pseudo-charm;

Or will they see

The true resilience of empathy

So hate and war

Can finally be

Disarmed?

 

 

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No Vacancy

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Deny hate a room

In your heart

Anywhere.

Fill it instead

With soul truths:

The sweet breath

Of infants

Asleep against your chest.

Does not differentiate

Who is worthy of care.

Deny hate a room.

Allow compassion

Instead

To take hold

Everywhere.

 

 

 

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Valuable Interest

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Not all interest

Pays dividends.

Not all attention

Is of value.

Too often what’s at stake

Is a diversion

To some bias of

Profit,

When in truth

The real returns

Are found in

Empathy, and

Real growth is in

Addressing prejudice,

Resolving hate

And healing

Conflict.

 

 

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Encircle

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Photo: Inbar Asif

 

How much will it help

If we can

Get ourselves out of our own corners,

Out of righteous

Stiffened chins

For right or wrong?

Maybe round out those

Hardened edges

So we no longer must

Contrast

One side

With another,

Or need to confront

A person’s sigh

With slight or fault.

Can we

Perhaps

Find common ground

In what may be beyond

All argument:

If we rotate

Long enough

Around a circle

We will eventually

See

More than

Our current

Vantage point.

 

 

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