
Photo: M.Bin HMQ; Wadi ad-Dawasir, Saudi Arabia
“He is an infidel,” Abdul grumbled about his employer. “Ad-Dawasir history shouldn’t be fouled by non-believers.”
“So were your ancient ancestors,” Umm Habib noted, her fingers flying as she shaped the dough with the practiced moves of innumerable meals prepared.
The adolescent startled. Such accusation would’ve necessitated a fist-fight if it hadn’t come from his grandmother.
“Many Taghlibi remained Christians well after The Prophet came,” the old woman’s face remained placid. She didn’t need to look up to sense the anger flashing in the boy’s hereditarily flecked eyes. But youngsters’ dark moods and opinions were like moving water. Truth remained.
She plucked freshly baked bread from the earthen oven with bare fingers, tips hardened by life’s constant flames. “That history is long passed, but it bears remembering some of our ancestors even fought against Muslim, and many stayed Christian …” she paused, considering. “Before finally embracing The Prophet’s teachings and Islam.”
For What Pegman Saw: Wadi-ad-Dawasir, Saudi Arabia
Great story here. I get a real sense of the characters and the place. You do a wonderful job of giving just the right amount of detail while pushing the narrative forward. Well done.
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Thanks, Josh! I find history – of places, of people, of culture, of perceptions, or misconceptions, of the many similarities we share (and the need of so many to hold on to the differences the perceive) – absolutely fascinating! This Pegman challenge is an excellent companion to human-travel. ๐
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Some truths some youngsters don’t want to hear…
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That’s true … and it is much harder to hold a black-and-white perception of people (and things and views and history) when one is faced with the range of shades in between that is called ‘facts’ … Hopefully, with age, some of us learn better.
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Hopefully…
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Yes, hope springs eternal …. ๐
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But was it Pandora’s blessing or her curse?
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Pandora had issues. Poor thing was given that box and set up for failure. The one to blame is whomever GAVE her that darn thing and put all that bad stuff in there. ๐
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I know the answer to that!
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I bet you do! ๐
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Never trust a man who plays with the clouds
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Um … yeah … that too … ๐
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This is so good, Na’ama. That wise voice of grandma, speaking truth to her hot headed grandson. It’s such a shame that the common ground between some of the major religions can’t be focussed on rather than the differences. And such a well described, domestic scene too
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Thank you, Lynn!
The wise voices of elders (at least those who ARE wise … for not all are, alas … ๐ as we can see … these days) – is something worth listening to, especially for the hot headed youth … who see in black-and-white and may not know enough about the subtleties of who THEY are, let alone those of others …
In the matters of religion. Or nationality. Or skin color. Or heritage … Humanity should be the common ground, but often isn’t, as small variation are amplified as if they are somehow profoundly distancing.
I’m reminded of a youth I knew, who was quite adamantly insistent that his ‘race’ was better than others and that to ‘mix blood’ is to eradicate “his people” (yeah, he heard all that at home, and they were quite proud of their supposed “pure blood” – almost Harry Potter style …). Well, they did a genetic testing to ‘prove it’ and … ahem … found themselves a lot more ‘mixed’ than homogeneous. …. His shock, his struggle with disgust (his father, who was his role model for ‘purity’ was more ‘mixed’ than many of the people he hung out with), and then his realization that he could not hate what he was and what he came from and the history it reflected … Well … it wasn’t simple, but it helped him see things a bit differently. I’d like to think that the spirits of his ancestors – no matter their ‘race’ – were there to counsel him in his dreams.
Here’s to the complexity of who we all are!
Na’ama
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Here’s to the complexity of who we are? I’ll drink to that!
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(raising my coffee cup and realizing it is empty — gotta make that second cup! ) ๐
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Oh, that’s an amazing story, Na’ama! Perhaps we should all have a similar test, prove how mixed every one of us is. I’d hope it would stop some of the stupid, senseless prejudices people have.
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I think the assumption one should have is that we are ALL ‘mixed’ (and good thing, too – if anyone wants to see the effects of interbreeding, they can look into the history of now defunct royal families in Europe …). But, yeah, there are those who hold on to the misguided view that limited gene pool is better than a wider gene pool or think that certain levels of melanin somehow denote superiority or ‘purity’ (they don’t). Similarly, those who think that their religion is ‘better’ or ‘the only one’ or gives them the right to oppress others in the name of their perception of God … or that it gave them the right to own and enslave and mistreat (and some still hark to the ‘good old days’ of slavery) others. It is all of it use of greed and need for power under the guise of race or religion. And … when we look right under the hood, we are all of us human, we are all of us different, we are all of us cut from the same broad cloth, we are all of us a mix of genes from long lines emerging from Africa at some point (and before that … and before …).
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All so true, Na’ama. Shame people can’t look below the surface and see the similarities
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Exactly, Lynn. It’s a shame that people are blinded by things that are the lowest aspects of humanity, which then prevent them from seeing – and living according – to the higher shared aspects of humanity.
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It’s a shame and shortsighted too – if we all co-operated better, were able to compromise, we might find some of our problems as a race melted away
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Amen to that!
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You capture some lovely detail; I particularly like “bare fingers, tips hardened by lifeโs constant flames.” It is an exquisite physical rendering of the tactful way Umm Habib is dealing with her fiery grandson.
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Thank you, Penny! ๐
I was hoping some of that analogy would be communicated, subliminally or not, and I’m not surprised you, with your sensitivity and attention to detail, would pick up on it!
I would think that Umm Habib has weathered more than one fire in her lifetime, and has been tempered by it. …
I like her.
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Na’ama
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I like her too! Do you have any plans to write some more featuring her?
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hmmm … now, that’s a thought! ๐
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Na’ama Y’karah,
Well told story without a trace of bias in either direction. I loved the description of the grandmother’s fingertips. Poetically brilliant.
My link is up. Two Pegman weeks in a row. ๐
Shalom,
Rochelle
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Thank you, Rochelle! I did not intend any bias and I’m glad none came through! ๐
Thank you also for letting me know you liked the description of the grandmother’s fingertips. Amazing things, hands are! ๐
Yay to Pegmanning!
Na’ama
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I have to echo all the comments above. The details of her fingertips, the calm way she is trying to teach her hot-headed grandson…
Sigh. When, oh when, will folks realise all religions, at the core, teach the same thing?
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Perhaps when they realize that all humans, at the core, are human …
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So… Never?
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Um … I hope that humans would, and hope they’d do so sooner than later. People used to think it was “normal” to own other human beings. They used to think it was “normal” that women had no rights for property or vote or say or their bodies. Some things change. I hope more will for the better, even as the ups and downs of change move glacially. Move they do. Not in our lifetime, perhaps, but I hope that sooner than never …
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I do hear you… but when there are things like the one at the head of your country bringing you back into the dark ages, it feels like it won’t happen any time soon.
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Yes … that is part of the ‘downs’ of the “ups and downs” and this one feels like a canyon … BUT, I still do believe that it can happen (not necessarily soon, but inevitably …). At least I have to believe that it is possible. Because I do believe that as a whole, people are good, and most people can be reasonable and have (and can learn more) empathy. So … the dark ages aside (not any better upon revisiting, these are), there can be light after the dark …
Sigh.
Holding on to my little light of mine … and to hope that people like that grandma, and like many others, and like you and I and our friends, can add to the change. XOXO
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Yes. I agree. There are way more good than bad out there. We have to have hope.
xoxo
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Yay! Here’s to hope. ๐
(and there’s going to be one less serial sexual perpetrator walking around in the US for the foreseeable future, so that’s good news, too. Corruption corrodes, and sooner or later, truth finds away). Amen.
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Damn good news, that one. I would have preferred he got more but I’ll take what he got!
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yeah, it is more than many men get for sexually abusing their own children … or the children of others … so … yeah, it is not enough, but it is more than most do get for even worse offenses. So there’s that …
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No comments…
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I know … sigh.
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